What I Wish Every Mama Knew Before Her Session
Mama, if you're reading this, it means you’ve carved out time for something that’s just for you. And I want to start by saying: you’re already doing beautifully.
I know what it’s like to be in the thick of motherhood. Your days are full, your mind is never quiet, and your camera roll is packed with photos of your kids, but barely any with you in them. It’s easy to push yourself to the bottom of the list. But the truth is? You deserve to be seen, remembered, and celebrated—not someday... now.
If you're wondering how to prepare, how to show up, or how this whole thing is going to go—I’ve got you. And if I could sit across from you, sipping on a coffee and some unhurried time, here’s exactly what I’d tell you:
1. You don’t need to be “ready” to be worthy of this.
Please don’t wait for your body to look a certain way or for life to calm down. Don’t wait until you feel more organized or rested or “put together.” I promise, this version of you—the one with full hands and a full heart—is already enough. She is beautiful and worthy of being remembered.
2. You’re allowed to feel unsure—and still show up.
Most of my mamas feel a little nervous before their session. You’re not alone in that. Whether it’s been years since you’ve had photos taken or you're simply not used to being in front of the camera, I’ll guide you every step of the way. You won’t need to know what to do—I’ll be there gently directing, encouraging, and making sure you feel confident and comfortable from beginning to end. We will laugh and be great friends by the time you leave! This space is comfortable, non judgemental and full of grace and compassion from a fellow mama in the thick of tiny children with sticky hands and lots of love (and tantrums).
3. This time is for you, too.
Yes, we’ll capture the snuggles and the joy and the connection with your children—but first, we begin with you. Because you’re more than just “mom.” You’re a whole person with your own story, identity, beauty, and presence. You deserve images that remind you of that—ones that reflect your strength, softness, resilience, and light. When it the last time you leaned into YOU?!
4. Let go of perfect. Lean into real.
If your toddler throws a tantrum or someone shows up with mismatched socks (it happens!)—it’s all okay. We’re not chasing a Pinterest-perfect moment. We’re creating images that feel like your life: a little wild, a lot beautiful, and entirely yours. Some of the most powerful photographs are the in-between ones—the ones where you’re laughing, comforting, or simply holding your child close. I will be working with you and your children to capture authenticity in its most beautiful form.
5. These photos aren’t just for you. They’re for them, too.
One day, your children will look at these images and see the way you looked at them. They’ll see how safe, loved, and adored they were in your arms. They’ll remember the warmth of your presence—not the mess in the car or whether dinner was leftovers again. What a gift that will be! I promise you - this will be the FIRST item you grab in the event of a fire.
6. It’s okay to enjoy this. Lik, really enjoy it!
You’re allowed to feel pampered. To wear something you feel beautiful in. To show up and have someone else take care of the details. This session isn’t just about making art—it’s about giving you a moment to breathe, to reflect, and to feel taken care of. And that? That is something every mother deserves.
A Final Word from Me to You:
You don’t have to shrink or apologize or try to be anything other than exactly who you are. Come as you are, and let the rest unfold naturally. I’ll meet you with kindness, guidance, and a camera ready to capture the beauty that already exists.
I’m so honored you’ve invited me into this season of your life. I honestly cannot wait to meet you and document this fleeting time in life! You’ve got this, mama.
And I’ve got you.
— Christine
